I’ll update this post with the text messages that were the yellow/orange flags. She started out with disrespectful bullshit and apologized for it almost immediately. It let her know how to escalate

Round 1: this was after I’d asked if a shared calendar might make it easier to coordinate dates and events. She turned into a completely different person. I don’t know if you know anyone with D.I.D but that’s what it was like. Her “other self” was cold and callous and said “why, So you can keep tabs on me?!?”

A bit about D.I.D: