{"id":100,"date":"2024-08-20T00:28:34","date_gmt":"2024-08-20T00:28:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/?p=100"},"modified":"2024-08-20T00:45:14","modified_gmt":"2024-08-20T00:45:14","slug":"shes-methodical","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/?p=100","title":{"rendered":"She\u2019s methodical"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Look at People\u2019s Patterns of Behavior I Robert Greene\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Wf74TmXlq4g?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll update this post with the text messages that were the yellow\/orange flags. She started out with disrespectful bullshit and apologized for it almost immediately. It let her know how to escalate <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Round 1: this was after I\u2019d asked if a shared calendar might make it easier to coordinate dates and events. She turned into a completely different person. I don\u2019t know if you know anyone with D.I.D but that\u2019s what it was like. Her \u201cother self\u201d was cold and callous and said \u201cwhy, So you can keep tabs on me?!?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"473\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"103\" src=\"https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1767-1-473x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-103\" srcset=\"https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1767-1-473x1024.png 473w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1767-1-138x300.png 138w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1767-1-768x1664.png 768w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1767-1-709x1536.png 709w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1767-1-600x1300.png 600w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1767-1.png 923w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 473px) 100vw, 473px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"473\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"102\" src=\"https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1768-1-473x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1768-1-473x1024.png 473w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1768-1-138x300.png 138w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1768-1-768x1664.png 768w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1768-1-709x1536.png 709w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1768-1-600x1300.png 600w, https:\/\/toxictonya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/img_1768-1.png 923w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 473px) 100vw, 473px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A bit about D.I.D:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Understanding Dissociative Identity Disorder aka Multiple Personality Disorder\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/defVs3F2oVI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ll update this post with the text messages that were the yellow\/orange flags. She started out with disrespectful bullshit and apologized for it almost immediately. It let her know how to escalate Round 1: this was after I\u2019d asked if a shared calendar might make it easier to coordinate dates and events. 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